Category Archives: Financial Domination

Blackmail and Financial Addiction

Addiction To Blackmail Returns With A Vengeance

Addiction to blackmail returns with a vengeance my friends. Allow me to introduce my latest “Blackmail Addict”, Jeff from Canada. Interesting gentleman with an interesting backstory; allow me to indulge you! Married to Giselle; she is fucking a young, buff co-worker with a big dick. Jeff became bored while she was out and began an online relationship with a Femdom on Niteflirt that lasted almost a year.

The relationship started out as an innocent way to masturbate and get off. After all, Giselle was out getting fucked by her young, buff, well endowed lover. What Jeff didn’t realize was how easily this innocent relationship was evolving into a game of Financial Domination and Blackmail.

You see, Jeff shared pictures of his wife with his Niteflirt Femdom and she in turn posted Giselle’s pictures on social media. In order for her to take them down, she wanted money. So, it became a game of cat and mouse and you can guess who was the winner.

Addiction To Blackmail Becomes A Financial Addiction

Not only did Jeff get addicted to blackmail, financial domination made it’s way into being one of his addictions also. What we have here are two very dangerous addictions. The more Jeff paid, the more she wanted and if he didn’t pay she threatened to keep up the photos and contact his wife.

Femdom uses wife's photos for elaborate blackmail, financial domination scheme that returns with a vengeance
Blackmail Addiction Returns With A Vengeance That Leads To Financial Domination

Imagine being Jeff’s unsuspecting wife! Your phone rings and a female informs you that your pics are on social media!! Funny thing, the more she threatened Jeff with blackmail, the higher the stakes got. These addictions were getting out of control; but he loved every minute of this game of financial ruin.

Addiction To Blackmail Returns With A Vengeance and Ends With A Buy Out.

This Blackmail/Financial game went on for almost a year and Jeff begged for a “buy out” of his contract. Did I mention Blackmail and Financial Domination come with contracts and boy out contracts? Well, they do!

Lucky for Jeff his buy out was only $500.00, however the money he spent on phone sessions and blackmail threats almost caused him financial ruin. I warn my clients how dangerous these financial games can be, apparently his Femdom didn’t. So, after his buy out she disappeared from NF and all social media.

Now you would think Jeff was done with his blackmail and financial addiction, Right? Think again, he found me, yours truly

and I’m going to turn his world upside down. Side note ; he’s going to feel the arousal, embrace the remorse and love the financial ruin even more. I know this because his orgasm this morning was very powerful.

Until next time,

Dr. K

what’s in a mantra?

What Does Your Mantra Say About You?

Do you have a mantra related to your addiction or fetish?

Mantra; A mantra is a sacred utterance. A numinous sound, a syllable, word or phonemes, or group of words in Sanskrit. It believed by practitioners to have psychological affect on the person uttering the mantra.

Many of my patients have a mantra tailored to their addiction or fetish. In this case, my patient loves small penis humiliation with a twist of financial domination.

Do You Have A Mantra Related To Your Addiction Or Fetish

I asked my caller Cody to write a mantra. As a result, he wrote the following which I found totally blog worthy. Once you read his mantra you will understand his need for his phone sex therapist.

I pay per minute to pump my puny pathetic pee pee in my pillow girlfriends pool noodle pussy. It makes my pinky pecker prematurely puke its putrid piggy protoplasm profusely. I’m a professional pussy pencil dick pervert who promptly purges the paycheck from my pockets to my phone sex therapist every time I pull and putz with my pitiful peanut size prick. I love pumping my pitiful prick. As a result, it is pushing me into poverty!

The mantra for pumping your body pillow girlfriend with the pool noodle pussy with your pencil dick penis.
On the line with my phone sex therapist reciting my mantra with my body pillow girlfriend with the pool noodle pussy. In any case I am a pencil prick loser!

Pictures Are Worth A Thousand Words

So what does your mantra say about you? Do you like to loop words over and over in your mind or would you rather look at pictures and illustrations?

Do you have a mantra related to your addiction or fetish that you would like to share?

Either way; I know while your reciting your mantra or looking at perverted porn pics, you are pumping your pathetic little pencil dick!

Would you like to be featured on one of my upcoming blogs? If so, send me your best work. Want to be considered for a Kink and Coffee Episode? Let’s do a phone session interview! It will be intense! Or, let’s create a mantra that fits just you.

Until later,

Dr. K

Cuckold By Rubber Dolly And A Big Black Rubber Dick

Being A Cuckhold Can Be Humiliating

Rubber Dolly Turns Jamie Into Her Cuckold With A Big Black Rubber Dick
Cuckold By A Rubber Dolly

Cuckold by a rubber dolly and a big black rubber dick; what does that mean?  Just what it says! My little Utah micro penis friend Jamie is being cuckolded by a blow up rubber dolly and her big black rubber dick!

You see, Jamie has a Micro Penis and even his rubber dolly was not satisfied by having sex with him.  She found him disgusting and very inadequate.

One night while chatting with him on the phone I suggested he buy a big black rubber dildo and that’s exactly what he did.  But the events that followed  were really quite unexpected; or were they? Perhaps I was leading Jamie into further temptation!


Micro Penis Pay Per Minute Loser

Once the dildo arrived Jamie became fascinated with it.  He would tuck the dildo in his underwear and pretend that was his dick.  I would laugh and humiliate him for hours. I then told him besides being cuckolded by a rubber dolly he was also my pay per minute loser.

He would just sit and wank, wank and put money in my bank.  He got so addicted to this behavior that he had to move into a smaller apartment and get a second job to support all of his addictions. Being a part of the addiction bank can certainly be dangerous for some!

Jamie stared out with small penis humiliation that eventually turned him into a cuckold and then a pay pig loser.  Funny how those addictions can snow ball with a phone sex therapist such as myself leading the way.

I always warn my callers that I can either help you with your addictions or I can be the catalyst that makes them worse. I find that full disclosure is very important with interacting with your phone sex therapist.

Lessons Learned From Being A Cuckold

Eig Black Rubber Dick For Dolly
Cuckold By Rubber Dolly and A Big Black Rubber Dick

It’s definitely been a learning experience for my little micro penis loser Jamie.  What started out as small penis humiliation showed Jamie how much fun being a cuckold could be.

He fucked his rubber dolly with the big black rubber strap on because his micro penis couldn’t even satisfy a rubber dolly! Consequently he became cuckold to a  rubber dolly and a big black rubber dick.  How embarrassing is that?

He loved hearing me laugh and humiliate him for having a micro penis; using a big black penis to fuck his rubber dolly. Being in therapy with me is not free so he turned into a pay per minute loser.

What’s next? Will Rubber Dolly turn the tables on Jamie and use the big, black, rubber dildo on his ass?  I guess only time will tell; along with some gentle persuasion. *wink*

Welcome to the wonderful world of how the Addiction Bank operates.  Just reading this makes you want to make a deposit doesn’t it?  Well don’t delay!  Cum have some fun with me, your phone sex therapist.  

Let’s play and I’ll feed your addictions and take all your money away!

To read my other blog, your phone sex click HERE

Until later,

Dr. K
Call Your Phone Sex Therapist for phone sex on  

Pay n Play A New Way To Give Us Your Money

Pay n Play The New Exciting Way To Pay

Pay n Play New Payment Option
Money Pigs Love To Pay n Play

Pay n play is finally here for all of you little addicts that love to click buttons.   That’s right Piggys!  Now you  have two ways to binge and further your financial addiction with your Findom Mistresses.

It was brought to our attention numerous times that the only way to send tributes was through Niteflirt.  We assumed that everyone was addicted to Niteflirt!  However, we were wrong and so we decided it was time to give our Piggys another option to Tribute Your Findom.

In addiction to paying tributes to your Findoms, you will also be able to bill your session through our merchant once you become an ESTABLISHED VIP piggy.  After all, we don’t trust just anyone who claims to be a Pay Pig.

More often than not, being a pay pig is a fantasy for many of you addicts out there.  We are not into fantasy financial domination.  This site is the real deal and may be too extreme for some of you .

WARNING !! If you can’t take going on a binge beyond your wildest imagination this is not the place for you.  We respect all limits, but those limits must be discussed in advance and agreed upon by both parties.

Where To Find The New Pay n Play Feature

The new payment feature has it’s very own button. That’s right, we want no confusion on your part when you’re clicking buttons and giving away your money to one of your Fabulous Findom Mistresses.

We have the Drive Thru Drop which is for Niteflirt addicts.  Once you click that button, you will see a drop down menu.  You will want to click on the “Drive Thru Merchant Drop” button in order to process your payment thru our merchant.

Quick and easy just like before! Go Ahead……Start Clicking!
Feed Your Addiction With The New Payment Option.

Just remember to read all the rules before pushing the buttons.  We do live by our motto:

Feel The Arousal

Experience The Remorse~

We Guarantee Financial Ruin

See you Soon Piggys!

To read my other blog, your phone sex click HERE

Dr. K
Call Your Phone Sex Therapist for phone sex on

Financial Domination Remorse For Pay Piggy

Hurt From Financial Domination Remorse Goes Beyond Financial Ruin
Feeling Financial Domination Remorse Piggy?

Pay Piggy Experiences Financial Domination Remorse

Have you ever experienced financial domination remorse?  The answer to that question is probably yes.   Feeling remorse in the Findom world is very real.  These feelings can  appear without warning.  Think buyers remorse!

This condition is not only real, it’s guaranteed to happen. You feel injured, sick and remorseful. You’re probably wondering why it happens and what triggers these episodes.


Let’s Explore Financial Domination Remorse

In my experience as a phone sex therapist; I see remorse more in Findom than I do in  any other kinks or fetishes.  Why? Perhaps its because of the damage it can do both personally and financially. Financial remorse doesn’t really need an explanation.  That remorse is self explanatory.

You spend more than you should for long periods of time and that could lead to financial ruin.  Financial ruin quickly and unequivocally translates to financial domination remorse.

But let’s digress for a moment here to remember not all pay piggys experience financial ruin.  Some of you pay sluts have no limits to your disposable income, yet you feel remorse.  That’s when remorse hits the personal side of your life.

Personal As Opposed To Financial Remorse

Now let’s  talk about the personal aspect of Findom remorse. In my experience, married men experience far more financial  remorse than their single counterparts.  The reason being you are taking away from your wife and family; personally not financially, to feed your addiction.

Did you ever stop and think how much time you spend feeding your financial addiction?  More than you think piggy!  Sneaking around, lying, making up excuses and stories or where you’ve been or where you’re going……the list goes on and on!  Emphasis on  feeding your addiction because that is relevant to the personal side of remorse.

Clicking around looking at all the Findom Mistresses and reading their profiles takes up a lot of your time!  After all, you have to find just the right Findom to fit your needs.  Let me remind you, you are sneaking around doing all of this investigative work!

Once you’ve found the perfect Femdom Mistress; you want to start clicking all of her goodie bags, sending tributes and funding her payment requests.

If you think all of those fun tasks don’t take time, you are sadly mistaken.

Complexity Of Addiction

Unless you are deficient in judgment and common sense , you have separate bank accounts, credit cards and prepaid cards that you use.  Lot’s of time management there piggys to keep those all funded and balanced.  One charge on the wrong credit card could open up your Pandora’s  Box to a not so understanding audience.

Time you could have spent with your wife, girlfriend or significant other.

Your mind also becomes absent from your home life because you are always thinking about how you can be a better pay pig to your Mistress.   More attention, devotion and of course more money. Those things alone translate into less time and money in your personal life.

I think you get the drift piggys!  Financial domination remorse is way more complex than just giving up your hard earned cash.   Need to get rid of your cash?  I’m just a phone call or tribute away!

To read my other blog, your phone sex click HERE

Until later,

Dr. K
Call Your Phone Sex Therapist for phone sex on

Shopping Piggy Doesn’t Measure Up

This Little Shopping Piggy Has No Bang For His Buck!

Shopping Piggy was on the loose this weekend! But, as you can see you certainly don’t get much “bang for your buck” ! We were having a little texting fun on Friday night.  I informed this little piggy it was time for a new photo.  Reluctantly he gave in and sent me this photo. ~Gales of Laughter~ What would Amazon think?  Probably not in their marketing plan for 2018.

Shopping Piggy Humiliation
Humiliation For Shopping Piggy

Look at that pathetic little weenie! Is it any wonder why he has to pass out 100 dollar Amazon cards for attention?  But that’s just the beginning with our little humiliated little s piggy.  His addiction doesn’t stop with Amazon Gift Cards and Humiliation.

More Humiliation Converts To More Cash

Would you look at that little worm! Lot’s of squiggly veins to! It also appears he is lacking on his man-scaping skills.  Do you think this humiliation hurts piggy’s feelings? No!  The more you humiliate him, the more excited he gets. The more excited he gets the more he spends.  Yes! Spend piggy Spend!

His need to feed his addictions were running high this weekend.  Not only did he want to spend money, he also wanted to feed his other addictions.   Humiliation in various forms, cock sucking, and needing his little faggot hole drilled.  He drills his hole in his office…..just a noteworthy FYI.

Shopping Piggy Craves Another Mistress

With the holiday weekend quickly approaching, Piggy’s playtime was going to be curtailed.  He felt this urgent desire to have another Mistress play with us.   In all actuality, it was more like desperation! So why not double the pleasure and spend more money?  Can’t argue with that logic!

Finding one of my favorite girls was not so easy!  Both Mistress Lillith and Miss Rachel were already traveling for the Thanksgiving Holiday.  What to do?  I know! Call one of my friends!

Fluffy was a bit nervous about that idea, but I could hear the excitement in his voice.  The thought of talking to a woman who has no affiliation with  phone sex lines was very appealing.

I called my life long friend Issa.  She was in the mall shopping.  I quickly explained what I needed her to help me with and she started laughing hysterically.  But then I reminded her who Fluffy was and that peaked her interest. There’s a story to that, but I’ll save that for another blog post later.

Shopping Piggy Blows His Load And His Wad

I made the connection and we were all off and talking.  Issa asked Fluffy all the right embarrassing questions, and got right into the humiliation and financial aspect of the conversation.

My friends are amazing! Fluffy thinks so too.  He asked Issa if she would consider chatting with him at a later date or joining the Addiction Bank.  He answer on both counts…..Yes!

I told piggy it was time to burn, and by that I meant…..time for the grand finale of wallet rape! He was, after all on a time schedule.  With that in mind……….wallet rape is very powerful….. and some naughty words from Issa and I,  he also blew his other load.

Loads of cash and loads of cum.  Fluffy was a happy man with a flight to catch.  Me, I’m headed home for the holidays too.  Issa and I will meet up and shop until our funds run out……temporarily.   The beauty of having a money pig is there is always a way to entice him to spend more.

To read my other blog, your phone sex click HERE

Happy Holidays Deviants!


Dr. K
Call Your Phone Sex Therapist for phone sex on


Money Pig Sniffing Out Attention

Money Pig Addiction To Findom

Money Pig Makes Me Cum
Getting Cash From My Money Pig

Are you a money pig with a strong, uncontrollable addiction to Findom Phone Sex? Do you often ask yourself why you engage in this behavior? The answer to your question and more can be found right here at The Addiction Bank.

I’ve been engaging with a certain money pig for the past several years now and his addiction comes and goes.  His name is Fluffy and his Findom addiction is definitely real.  I immediately diagnosed him as a lifetime money pig after the first year of dealing with his on and off addiction binges.  For some Findom is a fantasy but for him it’s a real addiction and he’s engaged in it for years.  He is also a pantyboy and a cocksucker so he has several addictions he is dealing with.

The thing with Fluffy is that he has learned to control his addiction. What I mean by control his addiction is that he knows when it’s time to quit.  It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t spend literally thousands before he reels himself in, because he does.  Then he begins to feel the pain and guilt of his addiction. He will disappear for a bit but his return is guaranteed.

Money Pig Has Multiple Addictions

Besides being a money pig, as I previously mentioned, Fluffy likes to wear panties.  When he wears panties, he loves to head to a glory hole and find a nice big, black cock to suck!  At times he will pay to suck a cock, furthering his Findom addiction.

Being Fluffy can be daunting at times!  Imagine being in a hotel room putting on your pretty black thong, knowing a big black cock is waiting for your little faggot ass!  Coupled with the fact you’re on the phone with your Findom Mistress getting wallet raped!

He squeals and snorts like a pig!  The black thong is wet from his little clitty dripping.  His lips can’t wait to suck that big black cock and get it hard.  Then he pays to get fucked by the big, black cock!

At last there is relief!  His addictions have all been satisfied for the time being.  There are times when he doesn’t feed all his addictions at once.  Sometimes a good wallet raping is all he needs!

Money Pig Looking To Meet New Friends

This week Fluffy has returned and he’s looking for new playmates.  I just happen to have a new Mistress for him to meet.  Mistress Lillith will be joining the Addiction Bank.  We share a common interest, that being Financial Domination and Blackmail.   I’m sure she will enjoy meeting Seth!

In addition to joining The Addiction Bank, Mistress Lillith and myself have taken to the air waves to engage in some podcast therapy for your listening pleasure.   Join us over at  Kink and Coffee 

Our shows are live and full of unrestricted banter! Perhaps Fluffy will join us for an interview one of these mornings.   We are selectively seeking new addicts to interview.   Contact Mistress Lillith or myself for a chance to make your live podcast debut.

To read my other blog, your phone sex click HERE

Until later little piggies,

Dr K.
Call Your Phone Sex Therapist for phone sex on


Panty Boy Learns About Cuckolding

Cuckolding A Panty Boy

Panty Boy Cuckolding Fun
Panty Boy Wants To Experience Cuckolding

It’s been a little over two months since Ms. Kiera introduced me to the wonderful world of financial phone domination. I must say, I have quite the appetite for it now. A world where men trip over themselves to entertain women like me. Every single one of you enjoy having your wallets and balls emptied.  But how does cuckolding fit into the scheme of things?

Panty boy was the first pay pig I spoke with – and we spoke on a handful of occasions. I must admit that it took me a little while to wrap my head around some of his experiences. I enjoyed learning about his trips to the glory hole to suck some yummy, delicious cock – and I loved hearing how he offered up his sissy pantied ass to the real men.

There was a point in there when Panty boy asked if I would allow him to ‘stick it in’. If I would allow him to fuck me.  What The Fuck?

I laughed out loud at that particular request. Perhaps his silly little dick got in the way of his actual ability to think.

Actually, may be green to the phone world, but I still have standards. You see, I still have high expectations of men and their cocks. I expect long, thick, and I expect you to know what to do with it.

Panty boy has the exact opposite of a nice, large, cock. He has a tiny little nubbin no bigger than a large pimple between his legs. The only attention that tiny peepee should get is from the humiliation of it being so small. He clearly needs to find other ways to keep us entertained, no girl anywhere will drop her panties for something THAT small. (Not even for a pity fuck)

However, Panty boy did open my eyes to the world of cuckolding.

It’s something I have played around with, having a few personal experiences in my romantic life. I didn’t realize there was a name for it, nor did I realize there was such a need for it.

Little dicked panty boys need to be cuckolded. Financially ruined,  cuckolded while being humiliated for their small little peckers. Lucky for him and others – financial ruin and cuckolding are on the list of my favorite things. Something I excel at, something I was born to do.

Can’t wait to see what else this future in femdom  and cuckold phone sex has in store for me…and for you. You can thank Ms. Kiera for introducing me into your world.

Call Your Phone Sex Therapist for phone sex on